TOTALLY LOST MY TEMPER

Yesterday morning I totally lost my temper with Brylee.

She has been slowly driving me completely nuts with her behaviour, both at school and at home.
She has this attitude ... like she can do exactly what she wants, never mind that she's not ALLOWED TO... We are constantly having to put her in 'Time Out' or sending her to bed right after dinner as punishment.

Well, it obviously IS NOT WORKING, as she is still being a right little bitch.  So... I took her into her room and told her that there was NO SANTA CLAUS, That in fact I was the one who bought all the Christmas presents... and if she didn't buck up her ideas and stop being so disobedient I would NOT  be buying her anything!

Did it look like she cared?  NOPE, she just stared at me and smirked.  

Boy oh boy is she gunna be sorry on Christmas morning.

CONSEQUENCES.  (Opinions welcome)

Today Kelly, Rena and I will do some housework then maybe go to the mall for lunch and a look around.


ABOVE:  a little video of Rena in the 'naughty corner' after drawing on my carpet with lipstick...(which was actually Brylee's fault as she had put Rena in a bedroom and left her there).   I have not got it out yet.... not sure what approach to take ... and I don't want to spread it or set it.  Any ideas???

Kelly and I (and Rena) went out this morning and bought two different types of Carpet Cleaners... Cavalier and some other one.... will be giving it another go this afternoon...hoping it works!

Also got a few card making supplies... Kelly has been great helping make bits and bobs for the cards too.  I am going to get Brylee helping me too... as suggested...some Mum/Daughter time, just the two of us.

AND Yes, I have tried to ignore the 'unwanted' behaviour, and be positive with her.  To no avail.   Some behaviours you just cannot ignore... and the school certainly isn't ignoring it!


ABOVE:  waiting.... waiting  for the Cavalier Bremworth Carpet Stain Remover to dry.....

End of Day:  lots of ideas from you girls... thanks for that!  I am going to try and do a 'combo' of things... more one on one time with her.... BUT also try a different form of 'punishment' when she is acting up... like take some of her 'stuff' away and she has to earn it back?  But knowing her, she won't give a shit.  Time will tell. 

It's been a stinking hot, muggy day today, no wind to speak of either.... so now I have a rotten headache!   Going to bed!  nite nite.

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